when my friend told her drug dealer that she was transgender he immediately started using the correct pronouns for her and her parents dont so theres an issue there

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i love car rides so much that i actually get disappointed when we reach our destination

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"asexuality is just the lack of a sex drive, or a really low one" uuhhh no. really, no. that is incorrect, you have been lied to, i’m sorry.

asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone. sex drive is your horny meter. you can still be horny and not be sexually attracted to people! similarly you can be sexually attracted to people and not be horny!! amaze

oh my god this actually clarifies so much thank you

So just to clarify, since this has always been hazy for me, an asexual person could get a boner and feel really horny but not towards anyone? Like they could masturbate but that’s all physical pleasure, it’s not lust for any particular person?

Yes. Sexual attraction is looking at someone and being like “is that a mirror in your pocket, because I can totally see myself in your pants”, whereas sex drive is brain hormones being like “time to mate your crotch is on fire everything suddenly looks like it could be used for your self pleasure” Asexuals don’t experience that sudden attack of “you’re so pretty let us bump uglies”, but can have a sex drive. Some asexuals don’t have a sex drive and may not masturbate or have sex, but that’s true for any orientation. Some asexuals are repulsed by sex, but again that’s true for any orientation.

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